August 11, 2016

So, What Does the Collaborative Attorney Do?

PicSometimes when a group of collaborative professionals are working together on a project, like putting together a Speaker’s Bureau program for a group, or working on a marketing project, we will describe the roles of the various professionals. When it comes to the role of the attorney, what may first get suggested is something like this: “After the parties have reached agreement resolving their issues, the attorneys draft the legal documents that are submitted to the court.”

Technically, that is true. But it is a huge disservice to the role that a good collaborative attorney plays. Most of the attorneys that I work with have been practicing attorneys for many years. Most have begun their legal practice in the traditional adversarial process. In that arena they often had the sole responsibility for preparing their client, and the client’s case, for trial before a judge. In that role, the attorney was the sole buffer between the entire adversarial system and the client.

Starting with the initial conference, the attorney was tasked with gathering all pertinent information, interviewing his/her client to understand their interests and concerns, and beginning the process of organizing the case into its many elements. Next the attorney might reach out to the other party’s attorney to discuss the case, or, more often, they would begin to prepare the necessary documents to place the matter before the court at a temporary hearing.

Central to this process was an ongoing evaluation and assessment of legal issues that needed to be addressed. Another aspect of preparation for trial was a process known as ‘Discovery’, or how to obtain full disclosure of the ‘factual’ elements of the case.

Of course, the other spouse’s attorney was beginning to engage the exact same process, and each side would seek to obtain whatever advantage they might be able to control to give their client an advantage.

Throughout the process the attorney was applying relevant statutory and case law to the circumstances of his/her client.

In the collaborative process, the role of the attorney has shifted dramatically. Recognizing that every study ever conducted said that most cases settled at some point prior to a full trial, collaborative practice introduced the common sense approach to support parties in jointly gathering all of the relevant information pertinent to their case. Minnesota law requires and demands that the parties provide full and fair disclosure of all information to each other.

Therefore, collaborative attorneys are highly trained in the law and knowledgeable of the both the law and the procedures that must be followed. However, in the collaborative paradigm, we have found it most expedient to align all of the various professionals as equally important to the process.

In most cases, the attorney is invaluable in helping his/her client recognize their rights and privileges as well as their duties and obligations under Minnesota law. Most attorneys become good listeners and are able to help both parties understand what is required of them.

The role of the attorney in the traditional process is that of advocate, which literally means to speak on behalf of their client. In the collaborative process each attorney undertakes a new role and duty, more like an ally, that of listens to both their client and their client’s spouse, in order to understand what is important. In the collaborative model it is up to the parties to reach their agreement, while it is the role of the attorney and the other professionals to help provide all of the relevant information that each or them need to make an informed agreement.

In my next article I will look closer at some of the complex nuances that attorneys can help sort out, that can help both parties obtain more focused resolution of all issues. It is not uncommon to reach final agreement that accomplishes things the court could NOT accomplish, because they are bound by the letter of the law.

Be sure to look for part two of this blog topic!

Bruce Peck

Bruce is one of the founding members of the Collaborative Law Institute.
Back in the Wonder Years, this small group was trying to figure out what a new way of practicing family law might look like. Today the collaborative law concept has exploded, not just throughout the United States, but also internationally. For over thirty years Bruce has continued to hone his skills to provide the highest quality of services to family law clients. He helps good people make tough choices during difficult times.

Bruce is a laid back and easy going person who listens well to others. He is a shameless optimist who can always see possibility and opportunity. Being very curious by nature, he is a voracious reader. His love for words has drawn him into being an avid poet.

Bruce’s skills supports clients interests without alienating their spouse. When the parties reach agreement, it is not under duress. They have the time to discuss all decisions with their attorneys before signing the agreement. Once completed, the stipulated divorce is filed with the court for a default hearing in which neither party, nor their attorneys, ever have to set foot inside a courthouse. Learn more at

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August 10, 2016

Heading Back-to-School This Fall

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It may feel like it should still be the middle of June and that school just let out, but the harsh reality is that back-to-school season is upon us. Co-parenting is hard enough during the summer when schedules are flexible Continue reading…

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August 8, 2016

One Gray Day

In 1967 when I was starting my first career out of college, I ordered a charter subscription to a new magazine – Psychology Today. I read with fascination the multitude of articles on a variety of topics. One that caught Continue reading…

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August 4, 2016

Connecting with People Instead of Profiles

Making online connections is easier than ever with modern social media apps. It is not necessary to know someone at all, let alone to know them well, in order to see their profiles and get an idea of who they Continue reading…

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August 3, 2016

How to Fill Your New “Free Time”

Those married, and especially with children, might dream of having a quiet Saturday night to themselves, but for many divorcees, especially those newly divorced this new “free time” can be especially lonely. You might not be ready or wanting to Continue reading…

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August 1, 2016

Divorce Blog about Divorce Blogs

While researching for this post, I came across a number of divorce-related blogs.  The blog medium provides an efficient and concise opportunity to share information and educate the public.  This blog focuses on the collaborative process — where clients commit Continue reading…

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July 27, 2016

Emotional Decision-Making When Markets are Volatile

There’s no question that periods of increased market volatility, like we have seen recently, can be unsettling. However, deciding to move to the sidelines versus staying the course can have long-lasting implications. In fact, making emotionally-based decisions in regard to Continue reading…

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July 25, 2016

Making Book on, Like, Facebook

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I was thinking about the incredibly wide range of preferences we humans have. Wow. But see what I’ve done? I’ve selected an amazingly large category from which to choose. It’s like, lets talk about the ocean. How about we men; Continue reading…

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July 19, 2016

Divorce and Dignity

You may remember the “Death and Dignity Act” which was brought to light in the fall of 2014 by the young advocate with terminal brain cancer, Britney Maynard. Britney was a beautiful, well educated, 29 year old, who moved to Continue reading…

July 18, 2016

Divorce in the Public Eye

Nearly every celebrity seems to have a divorce under their belt, but what about our local public figures – our children’s teachers, our mayors, city councilmen – how does the pubic feel about “those” public figures when they are facing Continue reading…

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